Desperate times call for desperate measures. Or do they? Many feel that in order to get an “edge” in negotiation, they need to resort to the use of gambits. Gambits are essentially negotiating tricks that help the negotiator gain value in the short term but damage the long-term relationship and the opportunity to achieve future gains. I do not advocate ever using gambits. However, it is inevitable that you will encounter people who use gambits. As a result it is very important for you to be able to recognize and counter them. Below are some gambits and suggested countermeasures.

Negotiation Gambits:

Hello and welcome back to our Negotiations blog where we share with you strategies to make you a great negotiator.

In our last post, we talked about ways to handle anger when it is real vs. when it is feigned. But how can you tell? There are a few contextual cues and methods that negotiators may use to help determine whether the anger they are receiving is genuine or tactical.

1. Reputation of the negotiator. Is this a person who commonly uses anger as an intimidation or power tactic? The prudent negotiator will research the other party prior to negotiating to anticipate the attitudes and behaviors that the party may use at the negotiation table. A good negotiator spends five times longer preparing a negotiation than actually negotiating.

2. Type (deal-making vs. a dispute) and stage of the negotiation. Negotiators approach deal-making with optimism. On the other hand, negotiators are likely to approach dispute resolution with pessimism. Genuine anger, then, may occur in the very early stages of dispute resolution negotiations because face has been lost due to the rejection of the claim. In deal making negotiations, genuine anger may emerge in the middle or latter stages of the negotiation as a reaction to emerging conflict or disillusionment over the other party’s behavior.

3. Test the other side. Another way to determine whether anger is genuine or tactical is to test it. Genuine anger should subside when venting is allowed, when breaks are taken, or when the concerns of the angry negotiator are acknowledged. Negotiators using tactical anger to influence the other party to make concessions may continue the emotional assault regardless of these events. Tactical anger cannot be thwarted until the perpetrators recognize that their anger is not generating concessions and their strategy needs to be adjusted.

To review different strategies for dealing with tactical vs. genuine anger, check out our first blog post.

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* November 20, 21, 2008 at UC Berkeley
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NOTE: Excerpt from “Some Like It Hot: Teaching Strategies for Managing Tactical versus Genuine Anger in Negotiations” by: Holly A. Schroth. The full article with citations will be published in Negotiations and Conflict Management Research

Hello and welcome to the new Negotiations blog brought to you by the Center for Executive Education at UC Berkeley.  In this blog, we will be sharing with you strategies to make you a better negotiator.  

In negotiations, anger may be genuine or it may be tactical—feigned for the purpose of gaining leverage or to intimidate the other side for immediate advantage.  Recipients of anger should respond differently depending on whether the anger is genuine or tactical (stay tuned next week for how to determine the difference).  Having the right response will determine your success in a negotiation.

The four approaches below are strategies that recipients may use to manage an anger attack.  Although all four may work in either tactical or genuine anger situations, the first two, labeling the anger and matching and de-escalating are particularly useful when the anger is tactical.  The second two, controlling the process and building a relationship, are particularly useful when the anger is genuine.

·         Labeling Anger.  The credibility and power of the instigator will be lost if the anger is identified as a tactic of intimidation and the “angry” negotiator is called out on the tactic. 

·         Matching with Firmness and De-escalating.   To equalize power with the perpetrator, it is important to match the power of the expressed anger (e.g., using intensity of tone of voice or posture), before engaging in a de-escalatory move to continue progress in the negotiation.  Responding in a manner that shows that you, the recipient of the anger attack, can be just as powerful or angry without being genuinely angry. 

·         Control the Process (Strategic Breaks).  Calling for a break can disrupt the negative intensity and agenda of the negotiator who uses anger as a tactic.  The break also allows the recipient of the anger to regain mental balance and plan a strategic response given the information collected from the angry outburst. 

·         Communicate and Build a Relationship.  When a negotiator feels genuinely attacked it is important not to yield to the natural reaction of striking back, giving in, or walking away.  None of these natural reactions will help to resolve the conflict.  Instead, the negotiator can refocus the angry party on interests by demonstrating an understanding of their concerns without agreeing with their arguments. 

Excerpt from:

“Some Like It Hot: Teaching Strategies for Managing Tactical versus Genuine Anger in Negotiations” by: Holly A. Schroth (The full article with citations will be published in Negotiations and Conflict Management Research)

 **Stay tuned for our next post on how to tell if anger is genuine or tactical**